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Shimi K. Kang ↠ 9 Free download The Dolphin Way Read & Download ½ E-book, or Kindle E-pub Ctor for Child and Youth Mental Health community programs in Vancouver British Columbia Dr Kang has witnessed firsthand the conseuences of parental pressure anxiety disorders high stress levels suicides and addictions As the mother of three children and as the daughter of immigrant parents who struggled to give their children the “best” in life Dr Kang’s mother could not read and her father taught her math while they drove around in his taxicab Dr Kang argues that often the simplest “benefits” we give our children are the most valuable By trusting our deepest intuitions about what is best for our kids we will in turn allow them to develop key dolphin traits to enable them As I read I found myself saying to myself in my head that s me or that s what I want to do The book is full of great stories to make you think about how you parent and had me thinking of ways I want to change Throughout I was reminded of both my childhood and how I parent The beauty of this book is Dr Kang provides prescriptions on what you can doA couple of my favorites includedPlaying with LegoChange the SpeakingListening RatioAsk Permission Before Giving AdviceA major learning for me was the idea of structure both the good and the bad I have made a few adjustments as a result if this book and am on the right road to raising Health Happy and Motivated Kids thanks to this book

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Shimi K. Kang ↠ 9 Free download The Dolphin Way Read & Download ½ E-book, or Kindle E-pub To thrive in an increasingly complex world adaptability community mindedness creativity and critical thinking Life is a journey through ever changing waters and dolphin parents know that the most valuable help we can give our children is to assist them in developing their own inner compass Combining irrefutable science with unforgettable real life stories The Dolphin Way walks readers through Dr Kang’s four part method for cultivating self motivation The book makes a powerful case that we are not forced to choose between being permissive or controlling The third option the option that will prepare our kids for success in a future that will reuire adaptability is the dolphin way   The dolphin way encourages parents to acknowledge that their children control and are responsible for their own thoughts actions mind and body It is the parents role to be supportive guides The dolphin way is community based with other adults also supporting the growth and independence of youth in contrast to the tiger way of parenting which is viewed as a competitive arena with limited resources leading to fighting for the scarce options and seeking to obtain the best for one s own offspring without regards to the welfare of others The dolphin way is altruistic and collaborative The goals of the parents in raising their young are to be of a guide than a director and to teach by example Emphasis is placed on play exploration social bonds altruism contribution and family community values It is not about overprotecting and overcompeting Activities that bring balance to one s life include playing freely exploring bravely bonding socially and contributing wholeheartedly This is not only what will bring joy and peace to one s personal life for healthy emotional well being bio it it is also what companies are looking for in their employees Strong test scores and a list of accomplishments are not helping the companies grown and be innovative in today s increasingly globally connected high technology society Self motivated and self reliant individuals are happier healthier and successfulThe author coins a term C or the complete uotient which embraces core skills for the 21st century These include creativity critical thinking communication and collaboration Children who have not had a lot of free time to play and have been brought up in a highly structured environment do not have these skills as well developed as those who were given freedom to explore and make their own mistakesjust being outside playing with the neighbors better develops these skills compared to being on a sports team that is coach led Real world learning includes trial and error and failure and from this one can work to overcome a challenge and find much joy in that process while learning a powerful skill adaptation People want autonomy mastery and success Self motivation is fueled by this as well as the ability to adapt to life s ups and downs and a sense of internal control People want to direct their own livesKey action steps for parentsEmpathize I know it is easier if I tell you how to do thisIdentify goals but that s not going to help your independence Support success I m sure you ll figure this out if you spend a few minutes trying to figure this out on your ownWhen the parent expresses empathy and identifies the connection between behavior and goals the parent is guiding the child to solve his or her own problems It is a effective lesson when the child draws the conclusion and says it aloud rather than hearing it from the parent because the neurons synapse around words we say than words we hear Also parents who want their children to be happy must make happiness a priority for themselves This is the first step in moving towards a balanced life And good decisions come easily and naturally if you balance and integrate all parts of the body and brain to focus on intuitionThe intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational mind is a faithful servant We have created a society that honors the servant and has forgotten the gift Albert Einstein

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Shimi K. Kang ↠ 9 Free download The Dolphin Way Read & Download ½ E-book, or Kindle E-pub In this inspiring book Harvard trained child and adult psychiatrist and expert in human motivation Dr Shimi Kang provides a guide to the art and science of inspiring children to develop their own internal drive and a lifelong love of learning Drawing on the latest neuroscience and behavioral research Dr Kang shows why pushy “tiger parents” and permissive “jellyfish parents” actually hinder self motivation She proposes a powerful new parenting model the intelligent joyful playful highly social dolphin Dolphin parents focus on maintaining balance in their children’s lives to gently yet authoritatively guide them toward lasting health happiness and success As the medical dire I liked this book much than I thought I would The author is a Canadian psychiatrist daughter of Indian immigrants Her mother was illiterate her father a cab driver This book uestions the methods of tiger parenting which as she rightly asserts is not limited to Asian parents nor are all Asian parents tigersWe are urged to emulate the best characteristics of dolphins to be playful creative sociablecaring and to value the process as much as the end results Dr Kang cites the example of the Finns who appear near the top of the world education Top 10However this does not mean being a pushover Dr Kang suggests the acronym K E Y S when dealing with children Kkill your inner tiger Eempathize Parents are not perfect and it doesn t hurt to admit this fact Y your child s goals and dreams are not necessarily your own You may even succeed in making your child a great pianist but this may not be hisher BEST self Ssucceed Be confident that your child is not a fragile teacup he or she can succeedA very wise book well worth reading


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    EBOOK DOWNLOAD The Dolphin Way AUTHOR Shimi K. Kang In her book Kang offers sound research and examples from her own life or practice as medical director for Child and Youth Mental Health for V

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    EBOOK DOWNLOAD The Dolphin Way AUTHOR Shimi K. Kang Full review to comeNot your typical parenting book by any means– The Dolphin Way reads like a study in psychology with tips and tricks than your every day run of the mill “self help book” While some of her advice an

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    Summary Ê E-book, or Kindle E-pub ↠ Shimi K. Kang EBOOK DOWNLOAD The Dolphin Way AUTHOR Shimi K. Kang Shimi K. Kang ↠ 9 Free download I liked this book much than I thought I would The author is a Canadian psychiatrist daughter of Indian immigrant

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    Read The Dolphin Way EBOOK DOWNLOAD The Dolphin Way AUTHOR Shimi K. Kang As I read I found myself saying to myself in my head that's me or that's what I want to do The book is full of great stories to make you think about how you parent and had me thinking of ways I want to change Throughout I was reminded of both

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    EBOOK DOWNLOAD The Dolphin Way AUTHOR Shimi K. Kang Shimi K. Kang ↠ 9 Free download A great book Lots of interesting information As a whole it reminded me of a response paper to the Tiger parenting approach The first part is about why tiger parenting is not a good approach and the second half is about how to be a dolphin parent and why is is a good approach I really liked the fact that there was a significant portion dedica

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    EBOOK DOWNLOAD The Dolphin Way AUTHOR Shimi K. Kang Amy Chua in her book Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother made famous authoritarian parenting style no play dates few choices no bathroom breaks during piano lessons A's are the only acceptable grades And both her kids went to Yale on music scholarships I believe Around the world we are seeing a rise in children suffering from stress anxiety sle

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    EBOOK DOWNLOAD The Dolphin Way AUTHOR Shimi K. Kang I enjoyed this one would definitely want to read again later on when kids are school age

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    Read The Dolphin Way Summary Ê E-book, or Kindle E-pub ↠ Shimi K. Kang Shimi K. Kang ↠ 9 Free download The dolphin way encourages parents to acknowledge that their children control and are responsible for their own thoughts actions mind and body It is the parents role to be supportive guides The dolphin way is community based with other adults also supporting the growth and independence of youth in contrast to the tiger way of parenting which is viewed as a competitive arena with limited resources leading to fighting for the scarce options

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    EBOOK DOWNLOAD The Dolphin Way AUTHOR Shimi K. Kang This book has answered a lot of uestions for me Such as what are the outcomes and effects of tiger parenting versus a nurturing but less acceptable and less controlling parenting style I have always known which parent I'd like to be but truthfully was not sure which style was productive and successful as well as happierApparently the dolphin way a lot less pushing and embracing of fun and true purpose in life is way better overall even in

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  • Hardcover
  • 352
  • The Dolphin Way
  • Shimi K. Kang
  • en
  • 08 January 2018
  • 9780399166044